Summer, Dreams, Changes

These three words somehow belong together in my mind...

Although I'm more into the cold seasons, fall and winter, summer is always a time that inspires me to change some things that I wanted to change for a long time, but never did. Sometimes I just hadn't the strengh to, sometimes I was afraid of changing something in my life.

Giving up something that you are used to is always a very hard thing to do and that's why most of us ignore most of the chances we get, especially when the decisions we COULD make, would change our whole life...
In the past few months I personally went through a lot of hard times and someday, there was a point, when I realized, that I HAD to do something, so I pulled myself together and just did what my heart told me and what in my opinion was the best for me.

Sometimes we just have to think about ourselves and nothing else. Of course we can't always do that, because that would be egoistic, but there are times when we need to concentrate on our lives and to focus on what is good for us or what helps us go further in our lives.

The earlier you think about what is the right way to go, the better. Don't wait until you are completely down, don't wait until your insecurities pull you to the ground... Do something before this happens! Even if it's really hard sometimes...

When you get to a point, where you completely lost your mind and nothing seems to make sense, where you are just confused about everything and there seems no reason to go on, think of everything that means something to you. When you get to that point, think of the persons you love, of something that you have reached due to a lot of hard work, think of the dreams you have... And then stand up and go on! To think of the dreams you have or of the goals you want to reach can really help you to get up again and fight.

Unfortunately there are not many people, who really fight for their dreams. Most of the people in this world today just accept everything that happens and let their lives pass by. Instead of letting your life pass by you should take everything in your own hands and always keep in mind that you have to do something, to be happy. Luck and happiness don't come easy and you always have to do something to be happy. Never forget that and keep your dreams alive.

If you always set yourself little goals that you reach step by step, you are able to realize whatever you want. Always remember that, when you're down again, no matter how bad you feel... You are able to go on.

During the cold seasons it's always harder to pick oneself up, in spring and summer it is much easier.

Summer's just knocking on the door, so think about your life, your dreams and about changes you maybe need to feel better and more comfortable with everything in your life.

Yours,

BeautifulNightmare